Wedded bliss
It's official: I'm a sister-in-law.My kid brother, Jim, and his wife, Tyler, had a terrific wedding that I think turned out to be a great time for everyone who was there. Sure it was a serious, holy event, but it was a lot of fun. Seems like the party started even before the rehearsal dinner and lasted until I finally left Raleigh late the next day after the wedding.
Jim and Tyler are two of the most easygoing people in the world, I think, so it was very appropriate for the event to be light and happy.
There were many highlights, including seeing lots of friends and family from Cleveland and elsewhere in attendance, as well as a bunch of Jim's buddies from high school and college.
Gotta give a shout-out to best man Daniel for his excellent wedding day toast, and to Jason for managing to call my brother by his high school nickname, Bull, during the actual wedding ceremony.
Tyler looked gorgeous, and Jim couldn't take his eyes off her. She and Jim looked very, very happy -- which made me very, very happy!
And, my bridesmaid's dress held up, as did my hair (after I lacquered it with product).
Probably my favorite thing was that my brother had the DJ play a song we've both always loved especially for me and him to dance together to. That really meant a lot to me.
My cousin Wendi also managed to give props to the Cleveland clan by getting the DJ to play "We Are Family" for us. Very cool!
My friend James, who I've known for almost 20 years, was a good sport as my date. As expected, there were questions from well-meaning family members as to the nature of our relationship.
It's like this: I'm the oldest of the cousins on the Torok side of the family, and there's a series of five of us who are one right after the other in age. Four, now including my brother, are married and three (not including my brother) have children. I'm the one who's still single and child-free, and I will probably remain that way.
Anyway, in sum, the wedding was great ! I'm looking forward to seeing all the photos that were taken throughout the day.
Not so great was getting good and sick upon my return to the Pee Dee. I feel like I'm still trying to get caught up here at work after having been out for the wedding, then out sick. It's stressing me out. So if I'm stressed out, that must mean things are getting back to normal.

Glad you’re back. This will make you feel better.
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