Hair Stories

So we here at Media General were told that we had to begin blogging as another way to connect with our readers, who I might add are some very wonderful people. I don’t really mind the forced blogging, in fact, I like when those who agree or disagree with my arti-cles call, write or email me to let me know. As long as you all reading this can deal with the babbling, hey I'll blab. Sometimes I'll have something topical to speak on and some-times like today...I won't have anything going on in my world. Well...here goes.

I took on a position here at the Morning News as strictly a newspaper reporter in May 2007. Before that time I was a TV reporter in Columbia, Missouri and I did some free-lance stuff in St. Louis. For me not being on a television screen would be a break from makeup and heavy use of styling products, and since my hair is naturally curly I could finally sport my beloved AFRO. NO more having to straighten my hair everyday. There are still some things that I have to do in front of a camera like web posts and we now have a segment on Fridays in the 5 newscasts called Sunday Spotlight . Even with these things, I don’t feel a need to go back into what I call “TV mode”. If I want to wear my fro on camera for a Sunday spotlight I will. If I want my hair to be strait I will as well.

I guess through all the blabbering what I’m trying to say is that even for those still in television, sometimes those of you at home watching feel that person on the screen is supposed to look a certain way and will call or write to tell how you don’t like the shirt someone wore on tv, or their hair wasn’t curled the way you like to see it, but the thing is, it’s their hair and their clothes. We love you all out there and if the next job I take is in television I will remember all the constructive and not so constructive comments I get about my writing and on air presence.

Back in September I had an interesting woman write me, my boss and his boss to let us all know that she didn’t like my afro. She went to town on my hair and that of a reporter and anchor over at 13. I’m pretty sure that over in TV land and the Webland people also have to hear a lot about my afro and apparently the other two employees hair as well. The poblem though is what people fail to realize is that it’s my afro and I’m the only one that can change it, so if you love it…Great! But if you hate it and think that it is an atrocity well, that is unfortunate but it won’t keep me up late at night.

I guess my question would be for those speaking honestly, how much does a person attire affect you paying attention to what the person is saying, be it a 30 minute newscast or a five second web post?

Well I hope I didn't offend anyone because that was not my intent. Have a blessed week all.

Posted by Candace Jarrett on 01/16 at 11:35 AM

I happen to think your afro is great. It suits your personality and now without it you just seem a little less Candace-y to me. I miss the ‘fro! smile

Posted by  on  01/16  at  12:59 PM

Amen, Candace, Amen.

Posted by  on  01/16  at  01:40 PM

Candice--I never “noticed” your afro before--and by saying that, I guess I am saying I never considered it distracting, or, for that matter, detracting.
Please understand this comes from a person who has many people--men, women, boys, girls--ask any sorts of crazy questions about my hair.
In fact, at one social hour one time at an upscale Florence restaurant, a slightly buzzed politico came up and just put his hands on my hair, I guess to see if it was real.
Scary.
I politely informed him that I don’t let people I don’t know touch my hair--unless they’re a pretty girl.

Keep up the good work, Candice, and, for goodness sakes, if someone is bothered by your hair, they should spend more time listening to what you have to say!

Posted by  on  01/16  at  04:18 PM

To answer your question.
None...unless you’re buck naked. Tell that ol’ bitty to watch TV 15 if she don’t like your hair.
They ain’t nothing to look at over there. At least y’all are hotties. I’d pick that fro’ and put some blinking Christmas lights in it just to spite her. What’s her name? I’ll call her right now and set her straight. No body messes with my girls.........but me.

Peace and do your thang.

Gather the fruit. Burn the tree and move on.

Posted by  on  01/16  at  04:50 PM

I personally love your afro..

..and quite frankly..I think you are a bit of a hottie..woohoo!

I just aint never put it up here before for fear that my wife would one day learn how to read...now that her doctor said that she has cadillacs growing in her eyes..

I can safely put it in print now..

I’ll tell you a little inside scoop that I noticed some years back..even ole’ Rusty Ray up there has been on camera..looking like a pall-bearer at Les Paul’s funeral from the waist up..just what you see on TV..and down under he has blue jeans with a hole in the knee..looks like he just fell out the side door of a Jimmy Buffet concert..

..and he is still going strong..so you stop sweatin the small stuff and strut your stuff girlfriend…

Posted by  on  01/16  at  04:51 PM

I bought new jeans! I swear I have! One time, I wore “parachute pants.”

And, the first rule of television is: “It doesn’t have to be, it just has to look like it is.”

Posted by  on  01/16  at  05:52 PM

Ya’ll are hilarious. Mr. Mookie I know who I need to contact when I need “results”. (j/k) Wolf..I hate that your wife has the eye problem but thanks for the advice and Rusty...I have a favorite pair of jeans as well so don’t feel bad!

Posted by  on  01/16  at  06:41 PM

My wife’s eyes are the least of her problems..but you dont have enough pages on your blog up here to cover that..

I often times think that it would just be easier to pick up another wife…

But no matter how hard I try...Nicole Boone wont return my calls..

Oh Yeah..

I hope Media General doesnt force me and Mookie to have a blog..

Posted by  on  01/16  at  07:45 PM

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